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#selfworth

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Juliette<p>Love yourself first</p><p>Loving yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. 💛 When you prioritize your well-being, you set the standard for how others treat you. Start showing up for yourself today!</p><p>Tip 1: Speak to yourself with kindness—replace self-criticism with self-encouragement.</p><p>Tip 2: Set boundaries that protect your time, energy, and mental health.</p><p>Let me know, will you start to be kind to yourself today.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/LoveYourselfFirst" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LoveYourselfFirst</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ConfidenceBoost" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ConfidenceBoost</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HealthyBoundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>HealthyBoundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfCompassion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCompassion</span></a></p>
SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦<p>here's the lowdown on avoidant attachment, based on my experience and lessons I've learned about being with one before:</p><p>1. They struggle to meet your emotional needs because they're hyper-focused on their own.<br>2. They create a push-pull dynamic, giving you hope for change, but rarely follow through unless you set firm boundaries.<br>3. They lack consistency, with relationships often starting strong but deteriorating quickly.<br>4. Being with them can hinder your healing and lead you to wrongly blame yourself.<br>5. You might lose your sense of self as they subtly break down your boundaries, making you feel like you're the problem.</p><p>You can't change their attachment style. They need to commit to change themselves, which is rare. They often only seek change after losing someone they truly value.</p><p>My advice: if you recognize these patterns, remember that you deserve better! </p><p>Prioritize your well-being and seek a relationship where your needs are consistently met. </p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AvoidantAttachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AvoidantAttachment</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/SelfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/RelationshipAdvice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RelationshipAdvice</span></a></p>
Sonja T. Eubanks<p>💔→💖 Dating After Divorce: When You're Truly Ready</p><p>Divorce changes us. Before jumping back into dating:</p><p>How do you know you've healed enough?</p><p>What red flags should you watch for now?</p><p>How can you trust again without carrying old baggage?</p><p>I wrote a guide to help navigate this tender, powerful transition:<br>🔗 <a href="https://bit.ly/4cInKTe" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">bit.ly/4cInKTe</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p>Boost if you've been there, or share for someone who needs this.<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/DatingAfterDivorce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DatingAfterDivorce</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Healing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NoMoreSettling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NoMoreSettling</span></a></p>
Joe Hehn<p>Share something vulnerable in the comments. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/selfdevelopment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfdevelopment</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/selfimprovement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfimprovement</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/selfworth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfworth</span></a></p><p>via&nbsp;Joe… <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=FDTyiEA5E1o" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?feature=play</span><span class="invisible">er_embedded&amp;v=FDTyiEA5E1o</span></a> <a href="https://joehehnyt.wordpress.com/2025/04/20/share-something-vulnerable-in-the-comments-selfdevelopment-selfimprovement-selfworthvia-joe/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">joehehnyt.wordpress.com/2025/0</span><span class="invisible">4/20/share-something-vulnerable-in-the-comments-selfdevelopment-selfimprovement-selfworthvia-joe/</span></a></p>
Estelle Platini<p>"The reason you begin tracking your data is that you have<br>some uncertainty about yourself that you believe the data<br>can illuminate. It’s about introspection, reflection, seeing<br>patterns, and arriving at realizations about who you are<br>and how you might change."<br>—Eric Boyd, self-tracker</p><p>an article by Natasha D. Schüll, 2019, "The Data-Based Self:<br>Self-Quantification and the Data-Driven (Good) Life" <a href="https://www.natashadowschull.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/SocialResearch-2019.pdf" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">natashadowschull.org/wp-conten</span><span class="invisible">t/uploads/2021/12/SocialResearch-2019.pdf</span></a></p><p><a href="https://techhub.social/tags/concentration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>concentration</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/credit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>credit</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/scores" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>scores</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/scoring" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>scoring</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/reward" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>reward</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/rewards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rewards</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socioPsych" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socioPsych</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socioPsychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socioPsychology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/selfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/universalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>universalism</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/digitalization" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>digitalization</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/recognition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>recognition</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/data" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>data</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/AIRisks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AIRisks</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/AIEthics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AIEthics</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/gaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>gaming</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socialization" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socialization</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Tracking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Tracking</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/surveillance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>surveillance</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/selfRegulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfRegulation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/attention" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>attention</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/reintermediation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>reintermediation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/intermediation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>intermediation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/enshittification" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>enshittification</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/risk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>risk</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/derisking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>derisking</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/vulnerability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vulnerability</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/morality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>morality</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/selfConfidence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfConfidence</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/dataDon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>dataDon</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Sch%C3%BCll" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Schüll</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/quotes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>quotes</span></a></p>
Estelle Platini<p>‘Our moral intuitions about merit and personal worth are changing.’</p><p>an interview with Marion Fourcade about her book "The Ordinal Society" co-written by <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@kjhealy" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>kjhealy</span></a></span>: <a href="https://news.berkeley.edu/2024/04/23/from-uber-ratings-to-credit-scores-whats-lost-in-a-society-that-counts-and-sorts-everything/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">news.berkeley.edu/2024/04/23/f</span><span class="invisible">rom-uber-ratings-to-credit-scores-whats-lost-in-a-society-that-counts-and-sorts-everything/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://techhub.social/tags/TheOrdinalSociety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TheOrdinalSociety</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/concentration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>concentration</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/merit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>merit</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/meritocracy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>meritocracy</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/MarionFourcade" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MarionFourcade</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/Fourcade" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Fourcade</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/school" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>school</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/credit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>credit</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/scores" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>scores</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/scoring" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>scoring</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/reward" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>reward</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/rewards" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rewards</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/sociology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>sociology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socioPsych" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socioPsych</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socioPsychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socioPsychology</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/ranking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ranking</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/selfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>selfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/universalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>universalism</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/digitalization" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>digitalization</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/inequality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>inequality</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/inequalities" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>inequalities</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/recognition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow 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target="_blank">#<span>surveillance</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/power" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>power</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socialControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socialControl</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/governance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>governance</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/regulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>regulation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/rules" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rules</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/socialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>socialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/attention" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>attention</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/reintermediation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>reintermediation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/intermediation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>intermediation</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/enshittification" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>enshittification</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/risk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>risk</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/derisking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>derisking</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/vulnerability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vulnerability</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/morality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>morality</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/confidence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>confidence</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/trust" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trust</span></a> <a href="https://techhub.social/tags/dataDon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>dataDon</span></a></p>
Sonja T. Eubanks<p>Dating shouldn’t feel like walking on eggshells. 🥚💔</p><p>The signs we often miss:<br>🔸 You’re constantly ‘fixing’ their moods<br>🔸 Your hobbies fade while theirs dominate<br>🔸 ‘Sorry’ never leads to change</p><p>I stayed 2 years past the red flags—here’s how I unlearned toxic patterns (and what healthy love actually looks like).</p><p>🔗 Read when ready: <a href="https://bit.ly/42rKCSl" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">bit.ly/42rKCSl</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p>Boost if this resonates. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/DatingAdvice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DatingAdvice</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/EmotionalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfWorth</span></a></p>
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zuzu’s haven
if no one has told you lately: you are enough just as you are. not because of what you accomplish, not because of how others perceive you, but simply because you exist.

healing is unlearning the lie that you have to prove your worth. it’s allowing yourself to rest in the truth that you are already whole, already lovable, already deserving. let go of the need to shrink or strive for acceptance — your existence is reason enough to belong.

#healing #selfworth #youareenough #wordsofaffirmation #selflove #beyou #shinebright #beyou #innergrowth
#innergrowth
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Séa(mus) Byrne
🔥 "Liberation" is here! 🔥
Out now on all streaming platforms. This is more than just a song—it’s a call to action! #iRebella
For once in your life, PUT UP A FIGHT. 💥
In a world where many have stepped back from speaking out, it’s time to rise up, face our fears, and reclaim our freedom. "Liberation" blends dark goth, industrial, and alt-rock to deliver a powerful message of empowerment, resilience, and rebellion. 💪
Produced by @dan_electro_x at #SonoramaRecords in Guadalajara, Mexico, and mixed/mastered by Carlos “Charlie” Santana @prosantana.mx in Puerto Vallarta, this track marks a new era in my music, shifting from the tropical vibes of Blue Skies to a raw, unapologetic sound that challenges oppression and urges us all to take a stand.
This is just the beginning—let’s make our voices heard. 🚨
🔗 https://seabyrne.com
#Liberation #NewMusic #GothRock #IndustrialRock #AltRock #RebelWithACause #StandUpForYourself #FightForFreedom #Empowerment #PersonalFreedom #Resilience #MusicForChange #BreakFree #SelfWorth #DefyOppression #SéaByrne #IndieMusic #MusicWithPurpose #ProtestSong #PoliticalResistance #NewSingle #RiseUp #MusicThatMatters #Rebellion #ArtistForChange #SpeakOut #FightTheSystem #protest
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Janet

Been thinking about being and doing. Often when I waken I think of what I am going to do, and then judge myself on whether I achieved it at the end of the day. Are you a ‘be me’ person or a ‘doing’ person? Does it need to be a choice? Even if not a binary choice, is there one you fall into more readily?

#boost #poll #SelfWorth
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