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It's a strange kind of paradox when a small fandom or group starts that's pretty cool. People love it, there's a small feeling of like "It'd be awesome if more people knew about this, etc." And then when it becomes huge, the feelings immediately become "I miss the old days when this was a smaller, tight-knit community."

Surprises are Culturally Normalized Violence

We are all intentional beings, we must exercise our agency to feel empowered in our own lives and to actualize our truest sense of self.

As intentional beings, when we meet each other out in the world, we must respect that we are co-creating this life by respecting each others choice and freedom to do as we will. To, by word or action, disallow or invalidate the choice of another being is to do violence to them.

When we plan a surprise for someone, we remove their ability to choose. We can get lost in our own feelings about the surprise, the look on their face when, how meaningful we think the gift will be to them (our to our self), thinking they will love this.

You may have no idea what traumas someone has or what triggers lie undiscovered, they may not even know themselves. You have no idea what landmines you may step on that will hurt them, which is probably not what you intend.

As a culture in the West, we normalize being grateful for gifts, being grateful for someone expending resources on your behalf, especially if you didn't ask for it. Your choice is removed by surprises because you were never even given the chance to say no, or even yes!

Spoil the surprise. 💬 Always ask if someone would like you to get them that thing or plan a special event for their occasion. Don't assume, a surprise is never about you, it's about the person you may hurt. 💌

#grace and #virtue are intertwined, for grace leads to virtue (2 Pet. 1:3). This shows the primacy of God’s action through grace leading us into virtue. But we cannot ignore the human involvement in that. This is why Peter says *we* must “make every effort” to grow into virtue (2 Pet. 1:5). The two elements must be held together: God’s action and human responsibility. To do otherwise is #unbiblical.
#musings #theology #theologidons

When I consider activism
I hear a solid note
shared through many voices
One cannot hold a note
sustained forever
we gotta breathe and rest
together we hold the note forever
breathing and resting
while others Sing
the Songs of Freedom
continue forever
Our collective voices share
We are not free until
we are all free...

Listen to the collective nature of this Philip Glass piece, a symphonic note, a chord, together in motion and rhythm...
tidal.com/track/360675179?u

Music on TIDALSan Francisco Symphony - Adams: Shaker Loops: 4. A Final ShakingListen to Adams: Shaker Loops: 4. A Final Shaking on your streaming service